Harish Rao

Blog: The Transformative Power of Gratitude in Our Lives

In the hustle of our daily lives, it’s easy to overlook the power of a simple yet profound concept: gratitude. It’s more than just saying ‘thank you’; it’s a mindset that, when cultivated, can bring about significant changes in our health, mental state, and overall well-being.

What is gratitude?

The Cambridge Dictionary defines gratitude as “a strong feeling of appreciation to someone or something for what the person has done to help you”. I add “ helping others and the universe” to the definition so that it reads as follows: Gratitude is defined as a strong feeling of appreciation to someone or something for helping you, others or the universe.

Why is Gratitude Important?
Gratitude is not just a fleeting feeling of thankfulness. It is a deeper appreciation for someone or something, which produces longer lasting positivity. When we feel gratitude constantly, we perceive the world with a different lens. I know that my life changed once I commenced journalling everyday about at least 5 things that I am grateful for. The more grateful I am, the more abundance I started receiving.
Let’s delve into why incorporating gratitude into our lives is so beneficial.

1. Health Benefits: Studies have shown that practicing gratitude can lead to a healthier life. A gratitude visit reduced depressive symptoms by 35% for several weeks. People who regularly express gratitude experience fewer aches and pains and report feeling healthier than others. This could be due to the positive mental state that gratitude fosters, which in turn, encourages a healthier lifestyle.

2. Positive Mental Attitude: Gratitude effectively increases happiness and reduces depression. By acknowledging the goodness in our lives, we often realize that the source of that goodness lies at least partially outside ourselves. This leads to a more positive outlook on life and a greater sense of connection to the world around us.

3. Boost in Self-Esteem: Unlike envy, which can make us resentful and ungrateful, gratitude allows us to appreciate other people’s accomplishments. This can lead to higher self-esteem, as it reduces the tendency to compare ourselves negatively to others.

4. Enhanced Self-Confidence: Gratitude can improve self-confidence. By appreciating what we have, we focus less on what we lack, leading to a more positive self-view and greater confidence in our own abilities.

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How Can We Practice Gratitude in Our Lives? Knowing the benefits is just the start.

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How do we make gratitude a part of our daily lives? 

1. Be Grateful: Start simple. Take a moment each day to think about the things you are grateful for. This could be as simple as a sunny day, a delicious meal, or a supportive friend. I, personally, appreciate what my wife Poornima does for me everyday by thanking her. Additionally, I choose to express gratitude to at least one more person during my evening wind up enrichuals.

2. Journal Gratitude: Keep a gratitude journal. Every day, write down three things you are grateful for. This practice helps to shift your focus from what’s going wrong to what’s going right. A study by positive psychology.com indicates that keeping a gratitude journal increases happiness by 10% over the long term. I journal at least five things/ people to whom I am grateful for daily.

3. Practice Gratitude: Make it a habit to express gratitude. Say thank you for the little things, whether it’s to a colleague who helped you with a project or a family member who cooked a meal. I ensure that I send a thank you note, mail or message daily to at least one person.

4. Repeat Gratefulness to Another Person: Verbalizing your appreciation to others not only strengthens your relationships but also reinforces your own sense of gratitude. I repeat gratefulness to Poornima every evening when we are together.

5. Be Generous to Others: Generosity and gratitude go hand in hand. By being generous with your time, resources, or even a simple smile, you spread the feeling of gratitude. I keep a conscious tab on my generosity daily and discuss same with Poornima daily in the evening.

6. Be Generous to Yourself: Lastly, don’t forget to be grateful for yourself. Acknowledge your own accomplishments and qualities, and be kind to yourself. I take my pocket money and splurge on great (sometimes expensive) gifts for myself.

Conclusion: Incorporating gratitude into your daily routine can seem challenging at first, but the benefits are immense. From improving physical health to enhancing emotional well-being, gratitude has the power to transform our lives in profound ways. So, let’s take a step today towards a more thankful and fulfilled life.

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